Frequently asked questions
I hope this page answers some of your initial questions before considering counselling. Please feel free to contact me if you have questions that have not been answered or to find out more, and please do explore the rest of my website.
Frequently asked questions
Research has shown that its the quality of our therapeutic relationship that determines whether therapy is effective or not. I offer an initial consultation so you can get a sense of how I work, and if I might be a good fit for you. There is no obligation to continue beyond this first session, if it doesnt feel right for you.
Counselling is a talking therapy, a conversation between us. You will talk through whatever you wish to bring, and I will listen, ask questions and reflect with you on what has been said. Therapy offers a safe, confidential space each week for you to feel heard and understood, gain new perspectives on difficulties in your life and build a stronger sense of self.
Counselling is a process which is different for everyone. I cannot say how long it will take for you to feel better, or to achieve what you hope for in therapy. We will have regular reviews throughout our time together, to ensure you are getting what you need from our sessions. Short term counselling is usually 10+ sessions, and we will focus on one specific issue. However, I usually work in an open-ended way, as I believe this adds a great deal of value to our work. I understand finances can be an issue, but it can be helpful to think of it as a potentially life changing investment in yourself, and that the more you put in, the more you will achieve. As long as therapy is making a difference, then trust the process.
There are many benefits to beginning in therapy. Some of these include: gaining a better understanding of yourself, exploring your life and how to reach your potential, improving personal relationships, developing coping skills, making positive changes to problem issues, and developing self-esteem. We will work together throughout this process and offer new insight to an issue that you have been struggling with. The benefit that you obtain will ultimately depend on how committed you are to the process.
What we discuss is confidential. However, there are circumstances where I cannot legally or ethically maintain confidentiality. In order to protect you or another I may need to share information, but wherever possible this will be done with your consent. If at any point during our counselling I feel that you are in need of emergency support, I might ask for your permission to contact your GP or your emergency contact. We will talk this through during our first session together.